Nicole Jolie

I Gained 30kg During Pregnancy — And Lost It All in 6 Months. Here’s the Truth No One Talks About

Pregnancy is often described as magical — and mine truly was in many ways — but it also carried moments of heaviness, stillness, and challenges I never saw coming. Before becoming a mother, I was athletic, disciplined, and always in great shape. I took care of my body, I nourished myself properly, and fitness was simply part of who I was.

But during pregnancy, my reality changed.

I went through personal struggles, health issues, and long weeks where I wasn’t allowed to move much at all. I spent a lot of time lying down. I coped with stress the only way I could at that time — by eating. I wasn’t active, and slowly, quietly, I gained 30 kilograms of pure fat without counting the baby. For someone as petite as me, 30kg was huge. My family was worried. Some people around me believed it would take years to lose it, or that maybe I would never get back to who I was.

But on the 1st of May, after my baby was born in March, I stepped on the scale, saw the number, and made a promise to myself: I will lose this weight — quickly, safely, naturally, and with complete determination.

I had a C-section, and anyone who has been through one knows that recovery is slow. You can’t just rush into the gym, you can’t do intense workouts, and your body needs time to heal. So I started with what I could do: walking.

Every single day.
With the stroller.
With the baby carrier.
Around the house, around the neighborhood — wherever I could move, I moved.

Walking became my therapy, my meditation, my commitment.

I listened to my body, especially my scar. I told myself, “The day I don’t feel pain while laughing, moving, or doing a light ab exercise — that day I’ll begin proper workouts again.”

By June, without stepping into a gym, I had already lost around 15kg just by walking consistently and eating clean food for breastfeeding. By July, I began slow home workouts. And by the sixth month, I had lost all 30kg.

No magic trick.
No extreme diet.
No unrealistic routine.

Just movement, consistency, breastfeeding-friendly nutrition, and an unshakeable mindset.

In August, I finally returned to the gym. And in September, I traveled to Costa Rica with my baby and family — where I reunited with my personal trainer, someone I truly consider one of the best in the world. Every time I’m in Costa Rica, I train with him. In only six weeks, he brought me back to a level of strength I hadn’t felt in years. After just two weeks, he said something that stayed with me forever: “You have incredible muscle memory.”

But even that wasn’t the whole story. Muscle memory alone is not enough. What pushed me was my inner fire — a determination that I refused to compromise.

For years before pregnancy, people would tell me, “You’re in shape because you don’t have kids.” I used to hate hearing that.

Their message was: “Once you have a baby, everything is over. Your body will change forever. You will never be the same.”

But they were wrong.

I had a baby.
I gained weight.
I struggled.
And still — I came back stronger than ever. I am fitter now than I was before pregnancy. I have more abs, more strength, more discipline, and more clarity. And I’m older now, with much more responsibility.

The difference wasn’t luck.
It wasn’t genetics.
I don’t have “magic metabolism.” I gain weight easily like most people.

The difference was determination. Mindset. Focus. The decision to not stay stuck in a body or lifestyle that didn’t feel right for me.

I refused to complain.
I refused to accept guilt.
I refused to settle.

Because I want a long, healthy life with my baby and family. I want to feel good in my body. I want to live fully, enjoy everything I deserve, and be the best version of myself — inside and out.

And beyond the physical changes, something else happened: My knee pain disappeared.
Before pregnancy, I never had knee pain, but after gaining weight, it began. Once I lost the extra weight, the pain was gone. It reminded me how many women are silently suffering simply because they feel stuck — physically, mentally, emotionally.

Your weight isn’t just about appearance.
It affects your health, your confidence, your energy, your mindset.
And the moment you decide to take responsibility and move — everything shifts.

I don’t go to the gym every day. I go 2–3 times a week — that’s it. I’m a mom. I’m an entrepreneur and a doctor. My life is busy and imperfect. But I maintain balance. I stay active. I nourish my body. And I treat fitness like a promise to myself rather than a punishment.

This journey has taught me something powerful that I want every woman to hear:

When you are determined, you can achieve anything.
You can move mountains.
You can rebuild your body.
You can transform your health.
You can rise stronger after pregnancy, after pain, after self-doubt.

Everything starts in the mind.

I am living proof that the impossible becomes possible when you choose yourself, commit to the process, and believe that your body can return — or even become better than before.

This story isn’t about weight loss.
It’s about strength.
It’s about resilience.
It’s about choosing the life you want — and not letting excuses decide your future.

And to every woman reading this, know this: You are capable. You are powerful. And you can become everything you decide to be. Your body did not betray you. Your mind did not fail you. Your life did not pause. It transformed — and so can you.

We all go through seasons that break us, stretch us, overwhelm us. Pregnancy, motherhood, stress, heartbreak, weight gain — these moments are not signs of weakness. They’re invitations. They’re the universe whispering, “Here is your chance to rise.”

My journey wasn’t easy, but it showed me something I will never forget: The moment you stop seeing yourself as a victim of your circumstances and start seeing yourself as the creator of your comeback, everything changes.

You don’t need a perfect routine.
You don’t need a gym membership.
You don’t need to look like someone else or follow someone else’s path.

All you need is a decision.
One clear, powerful decision:
I deserve better — and I will reclaim myself.”

And when you show up for yourself, even in the smallest ways — a walk, a healthy meal, a moment of gratitude, choosing movement over excuses — your entire life begins to shift. Your energy changes. Your confidence returns. Your mindset sharpens. Your body follows.

That’s why I want this story out there. Not because I lost 30kg. But because I found a version of myself that is stronger, wiser, calmer, more grounded, and more powerful than the woman I was before pregnancy.

If I could speak directly to the woman who feels stuck, tired, or defeated, I would tell her this:

You are not finished.
You are not broken.
You are not “too late.”
You are simply standing at the beginning of your strongest chapter.

Every step counts.
Every effort matters.
Every day you choose yourself is a win.

And if I — with a C-section, with weight gain, with stress, with a newborn, with work, with pain, with fear — could rise back into my power…

so can you.

Let this be your reminder:
You can rebuild.
You can transform.
You can come back home to yourself.

And when you do — you will be unstoppable.